You're invited

Thursday, September 14, 2017

I used to go on adventures by myself. But then I got assaulted and I barely would go to Target by myself.

I’ve come a long ways in 3 years. I used to pride myself on being able be my own best company. I’d invite myself to adventures. Waited for no one. Never wished my life away. Lately, I don’t even remember the last time I did something alone or was alone. I don’t remember the last time I invited myself to be my own best company.

So, on Saturday, I woke up, and invited myself on a road trip north. No destination. No time limit. Drove until I found something interesting to look at.

I drove north on Pacific Coast HWY 1 through the magical fog and the small coastal towns that hug California’s rugged and beautiful coastline.

I ended up stopping in Olema, CA at this little lodge near a stream with lots of outdoor chairs and logs to read and write. I spent time just listening to silence and in nature. 

I couldn’t believe it’s been 3 years since I’d taken a spontaneous self-adventure with no agenda…

Living life in the city is exciting. In October I have back to back concerts. In the last month, in August it seemed to be back to back reunions and parties. I love all the lights, the busy energy, and the eclectic people that reside in San Francisco.

But as someone who is also part country - I also need rural. I need a place that is simple, with narrow roads, gravel paths, no cell service. Nature that is limited or barely touched by any person. A place that grounds me, slows me down, and brings life and my living back to the center.

Just nature and God, which in so many ways I’ve felt are the same thing anymore.

My life although fun and liberating, has also lacked self-rituals and consistency. I’ve spent the last 1.5 years building mostly horizontal, which has been rich and full of exploring, but I haven’t spent much time building vertically.

So, stay tuned, you’re definitely invited. 

Photos from my time in Olema, CA:

Harmonizing goal setting and being present

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Achieve by August 2016
I've always been an avid goal setter. I can't tell you how many goal lists I have - short term, long term, a travel bucket list, and a yearly priorities list just to name a few. I basically take a life inventory of myself. It's okay if you rolled your eyes, I did too.

In the last year and a half or so, my goal was to learn to be present. I've always admired those who could be so consistently present. Whether it be conversation or quality time, they're just there 100% of the time.

I've been more of a 60/40. 60% mentally present and 40% planning ahead or wandering elsewhere. I noticed how it was affecting my relationships and completely feeding into my already awful perfectionist habits.

So, I've in a way, taken a break from goals. I've just lived, breathed, and pretended to be spontaneous and I can't tell you how freeing that's felt. Even through photos, my face looks more peaceful and joyful than it did a few years ago.
Goal Setting in Big Sur
However, I'm bad with moderation...in just about everything. If I'm focused in on something, I can leap from one end to the other. So, I've recently been thinking, when was the last time I set personal goals? Ones outside my job?.......Yeah.......

So, I opened a notebook that I had written 20 goals to achieve in  20 years as I did a 10 goals to achieve in 10 years - and I achieved all, but 1! After crossing some off, I decided to add a few more to make it 20 again.

It boils down to this for me, there has to be a happy medium of wanting to achieve the most for myself every single moment and being present to enjoy what I've achieved and learn from what I haven't. Maybe one day I won't be so hard on myself, but I'm human and it's in my nature to want to be better and to do more.
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Lovers Point Park

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

I went on a mid-week adventure to Lovers Point Park.

It was the perfect 2 hour get away! The great thing about sights along the central coast is the FREE parking :) Also, there is a path to walk alongside from Cannery Row all the way until the end of the gold course. 

Adorable coastal homes, the ocean, a sunset, it doesn't get more picturesque! 










Point Lobos

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Saturday was my first full day off since I started. I didn't look at my email, didn't respond to work related texts, didn't try and work on work in my few minutes of sitting, zilch! 

So, I checked out Point Lobos! It's absolutely stunning & if you are anywhere near the area it is worth the adventure. 7 miles of beautiful scenery - ocean, rugged coastline, sea creatures, forest like trails, and if you're lucky the warm sun. 

I hope you enjoy my little self care vaca day through photographs.

Ruggest coastline:
Splish splash:


Famous China Cove:









17 mile drive

Sunday, September 1, 2013

With my first weekend off since July, I made sure to carve out some time to explore the area. I decided to make the 17 mile drive, a popular tourist destination in the Bay area. 

It is a $10 fee to get into the park, but well worth it. The weather decided to be nice to me the second half of the trip too, which I was happy about because I got to watch some whales as I was stopping through some look out points.

Enjoy!










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